During Position Pregnancy Sex.

My partner and I are concerned about sexual activity during pregnancy. What should we do?
Discuss it with your doctor. You need to rule out complications and ask for individual advice. Most doctors agree sex can be a part of a normal pregnancy.

After my partner and I have sex, I feel the baby move a lot. Is this because we had sex?
Your baby moves a lot, no matter what you are doing. If you feel it move more after sexual intercourse, it doesn't mean it was disturbed, uncomfortable or in danger.

My partner is scared to have sex with me because he's afraid it will hurt the baby. What can I tell him?
Sexual activity doesn't usually harm a growing baby. Neither intercourse nor orgasm should be a problem if you have a healthy pregnancy. The baby is well protected by the amniotic sac and amniotic fluid. Uterine muscles are strong and protect the baby, and a thick mucus plug seals the cervix, which helps protect against infection. Often it's the man who asks about sex during pregnancy. You might want to discuss this with your doctor if your partner goes with you to your appointments.

My partner and I enjoy sex a lot. Is this bad for me or the baby?
Frequent sexual activity should not be harmful to a healthy pregnancy. Usually a couple can continue the level of sexual activity they are used to. If you are concerned, discuss it at a prenatal appointment.

I read that some women have a greater desire for sex during pregnancy. Is this true?
Researchers report that pregnancy does enhance the sex drive for some women. Some women may experience orgasms or multiple orgasms for the first time during pregnancy. This is due to heightened hormonal activity and increased blood flow to the pelvic area.

Physically, I don't feel very much like having sex. Why?
During the 1st trimester, you may have experienced fatigue and nausea. During the 3rd trimester, your weight gain, enlarging abdomen, tender breasts and other problems may make you desire sex less. This is normal. Tell your partner how you're feeling, and try to work out a solution that is satisfactory for both of you.

I don't feel very sexy now that I'm pregnant. Is this normal?
You may feel less attractive, but many men find a pregnant woman very attractive. If you experience these feelings, discuss them with your partner.

Isn't there some happy medium to my feelings about sex during pregnancy?
According to research, women generally experience one of two sex-drive patterns. The first is a lessening of desire in the 1st and 3rd trimesters, with an increase in the 2nd trimester. The second is a gradual decrease in desire for sex as pregnancy progresses. Sex is individual; you're not going to fit any pattern perfectly. Discuss your feelings with your partner. Tenderness and understanding can help you both.

During position pregnancy sex.

I feel physically uncomfortable having sex. What can we do about it?
You may find new positions for lovemaking are necessary. Your larger abdomen may make some positions more uncomfortable than others. In addition, physicians advise a woman not to lie flat on her back after the 16th week of pregnancy. The weight of the uterus restricts circulation. Lie on your side or with you on top.

What should I do if I have problems or concerns?
Discuss any complications and concerns with your doctor throughout pregnancy. If you have any unusual symptoms during or following sexual activity, discuss them before resuming sex.

What about sex and miscarriage?
If you have a history of miscarriage, your doctor may caution you against sex and orgasm. However, there is no data that actually links sexual intercourse and miscarriage.

My friend told me that having sex can cause me to go into labor early. Is this true?
Orgasm causes mild uterine contractions, so if you have a history of early labor, your doctor may advise against intercourse and orgasm. Chemicals in semen may also stimulate contractions, so it may not be advisable for a woman's partner to ejaculate inside her. However, in a normal pregnancy, even one near delivery, this is usually not a problem.

What should we avoid during sex now that I'm pregnant?
Don't insert any object into the vagina that could cause injury or infection. Blowing air into the vagina is also dangerous because it can force a potentially fatal air bubble into the woman's blood stream. Nipple stimulation releases oxytocin, which causes uterine contractions. You might want to discuss this with your doctor.

Are there times we should avoid sex during pregnancy?
Avoid sexual activity if you have any of the following problems or conditions: