Pregnancy Mood Swings.

Now that I'm pregnant, I'm not as excited as I thought I'd be. Is this normal?
If you aren't immediately thrilled about pregnancy, don't feel alone. A common feeling and response to pregnancy is to question your condition. Some of this may be because you're not sure of what lies ahead.

When will I begin to think of the fetus as my baby?
This is different for everyone. Some women begin to feel this way as soon as they know they are pregnant. For others, it occurs when they hear their baby's heartbeat, around 12 or 13 weeks, or when they first feel their baby move, between 16 and 20 weeks.

I seem to cry at the least little thing. Why does this happen?
Crying easily, mood swings, energy lows and fatigue are all normal aspects of pregnancy. During the 1st trimester of pregnancy, hormones increase to support the pregnancy. Some women are more sensitive to these changes, especially those who are sensitive to a similar hormonal shift before menstruation. If you become weepy or edgy around your menstrual period, you may experience similar emotions as your body adjusts to pregnancy.

Will these emotional mood swings continue during my pregnancy?
They continue to some degree throughout pregnancy. These swings are caused by the changing hormones in your body. Explain to your partner and other family members that you may experience these swings.

I am experiencing conflicting feelings about my pregnancy. Is this normal?
It is very normal. Your feelings arise from your adjustment to your pregnancy you are taking the first steps toward an incredible role change that will involve many aspects of your life. Your feelings of conflict come from your attempts to deal with all the questions and concerns you have.

I've been very depressed during my pregnancy. Should I ask my doctor for an antidepressant?
Antidepressant medication is not usually prescribed during pregnancy. However, if it is necessary, there are medications considered safe; familiar ones include Prozac and Zoloft. Treatment must be done on an individualized basis. Your doctor and possibly a psychiatrist or psychologist will discuss the situation with you.

I'm in my 3rd trimester and I'm more emotional than ever. Is there anything wrong with me?
No, you're normal. You may be getting a little anxious about the upcoming labor and delivery. You may find mood swings occur more frequently, and you may be more irritable. Relax and don't focus on your feelings. Talk to your partner about how you're feeling and what you're experiencing.